I’m so sorry. I think I forgot the initial question. So sorry, OP. Yes, what happened?
Thank you for asking! We had taken that weekend to evaluate everything and realized that the problem was neither with the gym nor my daughter. The two were just not a right fit for each other. I sought out advice from my daughters past coaches and they all concluded that she needed to stay on Level 5, but at a gym that takes a more individualized and nurturing approach. My daughter’s gym was only exacerbating mental blocks and struggles with her confidence so we chose to pull her out. Again, not their issue, it’s just their tried and true method that just wasn’t right for DD. It felt like a crazy decision with all the gym switching, but we really thought it out and felt it was right for her to be in an environment where she can thrive emotionally, first and foremost. She had been home sick for her old gym for awhile, but said she had pushed those feelings aside because she thought she was getting the best training. So...we moved her back to her old gym (Gym A).
Our reasons for moving her in the first place (Gym A to Gym B) was because of coaching changes. As a level 4 she competed well at a 35 average AA while training independently much of the time because her coach was spread so thin. We imagined she would have been at 37AA or above had she been given more attention. So when her coach left, we had enough of the coaching inconsistencies.
She has since been training at her old gym and still has a way to go. There is a lot of catching up to do and work to be done. She regressed on a lot of skills, but her confidence is coming back and she is so much happier. She still has a lot of mental blocks, but her coaches (both who have coached her in the past) said they are just concentrating on rewiring her brain. It’s almost like she’s coming back from an injury. They are getting her safely caught up in training level 5 and they said she will be ready to compete soon.
When her old team saw she was back, they ran to her with hugs, as did the Optional girls, parents, and other coaches. She was just a number at the other gym. Hindsight is definitely 20/20, but her team has received great training with two fantastic coaches. I recently read an article about switching gyms which said “the grass isn’t always greener on the other side, but where you water it.” I know this phrase is used in many examples, but it rings true for this particular situation. My daughter had been the best on her team when she left and now she’s all the way at the bottom, but that doesn’t bother her. She knows that she’s getting great training and she trusts the coaches and ultimately, herself. She is happy again. Right now, this is good enough for us.