- Aug 3, 2009
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Okay, my DD is 7 and will compete L5 this winter/spring. She is small for her age. (about 5% on height and weight). She gets up and over the vault, that's not an issue. (at the right height and without a spot). She may look like a sway back horse going off the back end..but she gets it done..lol
The thing is..she runs full tilt till three or four step before the spring board, then it's almost like you can see someone put her in slow motion. If it was quiet enough in the gym I suspect you would be able to hear the creaking of an old door as she goes over..lol.
She says it's scary. She knows that the coaches would never ask her to do anything they didn't think she could do. And she is fully aware that she CAN do it. But she has that hesitation.
I am by no means trying to coach her. I know better than that. I was just wondering if there was something else I could say or do to help her be more confident in herself and her abilities? Should I say anything at all, or just let her work through it on her own? I think her age plays a big roll in this (for me anyway), if she was older I think I would go with the, let her come to me concept (at least that's my plan..bahahaha), but as a Momma it bothers me to see her so uncertain of herself. But I love the fact that even though she might not believe in herself to the fullest yet, she does believe in her coaches enough to go for it anyway.
What should this Momma do? I promise I'm not crossing over into the CGM...promise...lol
The thing is..she runs full tilt till three or four step before the spring board, then it's almost like you can see someone put her in slow motion. If it was quiet enough in the gym I suspect you would be able to hear the creaking of an old door as she goes over..lol.
She says it's scary. She knows that the coaches would never ask her to do anything they didn't think she could do. And she is fully aware that she CAN do it. But she has that hesitation.
I am by no means trying to coach her. I know better than that. I was just wondering if there was something else I could say or do to help her be more confident in herself and her abilities? Should I say anything at all, or just let her work through it on her own? I think her age plays a big roll in this (for me anyway), if she was older I think I would go with the, let her come to me concept (at least that's my plan..bahahaha), but as a Momma it bothers me to see her so uncertain of herself. But I love the fact that even though she might not believe in herself to the fullest yet, she does believe in her coaches enough to go for it anyway.
What should this Momma do? I promise I'm not crossing over into the CGM...promise...lol
