OT: Not gym related, but an adult topic in nature, and I trust the candid opinions of CB parents.
Say your hubby gets a call from the doctor that his latest prostate test came back positive, being a "possible" first indicator of cancer; but wants to conduct a biopsy to confirm the findings.
Would it be better that your spouse NOT mention the specifics to you until the biopsy results are in, or would it be better if he told you everything beforehand?
If he didnt say anything, and the test was negative, would you honestly be upset that you weren't informed earlier?
My wifey is bit of an emotional icon even when it comes to even "possible" bad news. A real gloom & doom, the worst will always happen to her type personality. She's a very happy person normally (because of me naturally ), but something like this would make her an emotional wreck until any results are determined.
I'm kind of stuck, as we've always had an open and honest relationship that doesn't keep important secrets from each other. But I don't want her to dust off my 'Last Will and Testiment' just yet either.
Opinions?
Say your hubby gets a call from the doctor that his latest prostate test came back positive, being a "possible" first indicator of cancer; but wants to conduct a biopsy to confirm the findings.
Would it be better that your spouse NOT mention the specifics to you until the biopsy results are in, or would it be better if he told you everything beforehand?
If he didnt say anything, and the test was negative, would you honestly be upset that you weren't informed earlier?
My wifey is bit of an emotional icon even when it comes to even "possible" bad news. A real gloom & doom, the worst will always happen to her type personality. She's a very happy person normally (because of me naturally ), but something like this would make her an emotional wreck until any results are determined.
I'm kind of stuck, as we've always had an open and honest relationship that doesn't keep important secrets from each other. But I don't want her to dust off my 'Last Will and Testiment' just yet either.
Opinions?
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