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Thanks for your response Cher. I don't worry or concern myself with how other gymnasts are progressing. You suggest trusting my DD's HC. But that is precisely the purpose of my post. We are constantly losing gymnast for reasons unbeknownst to me. Since I don't gossip and pretty much judt drop my DD of at practice, I rarely get to socialize with other parents. But this new occurrence troubles me now. Things keep happening and I am beginning to question the gym. I just wanted some insight on this direction the coaches were heading because my DD is going up quickly in the levels and want to be confident that she is in the gym that puts their gymnadts first. Often times, people are so quick to pass judgment and offer solutions unrelated to the original post. It just is too bad that instead of trying to help each other out, we try to cut each other down. My daughter could be one of the gymnasts I mentioned but I might have chosen not to say who she was for purposes of anonymity. Is it too hard to just try to answer a question and not put all sorts of analysis on the poster whom we do not even know?
I think it is important to watch what is going on in the gym because it gives you insight into what the future holds for your DD. To me it's like when your kid is a year from middle school you want to take a peek at what is going on there to see if that is the place you want your child to go.
I would be concerned if the coach was having kids skip levels and they were doing poorly at meets or having other adverse reactions to the stress of rushing. I don't really understand why a coach would rather have kids compete Level 8 poorly, rather than compete L7 successfully. I don't think it makes your gym look any better to others. That's making the assumption that they wouldn't be ready for L8. I see this in parents a lot too. They want to be able to say their kid is a certain level regardless of how they actually look at that level. I personally would rather always have my child doing a level that she can do confidently.
The gym DD used to go to would often rush through 6-7 to get to 8 and many of the girls did it successfully. They would either go 6/7 in one season or do a full season of 6 and then quickly go 7/8. I can't speak to the reasoning behind it, but they did it with almost every kid.
If it's something that is going to impact your DD immediately, I'd be asking questions. If she's a year out from the situation I just might keep a close watch on how the girls that skipped L7 do. If the coach were wanting my child to skip a level and I felt like she wasn't ready, I would say so and hope that the coach would allow her to compete a level she was really ready for.