- Sep 2, 2016
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I understand that most of you are in a different boat. NY DD is a low-level gymnast in her first season competing. I know that she wants to do as well as she can at her meets, but since she’s 8, I’m making some of the decisions for her.
She’s improved at her meets as the season has progressed. That is, until her most recent meet.
This was the first time that we stayed at a hotel the night before the meet. I wanted her to be able to spend some time with her friends outside the gym. We got to the hotel mid-day, over 24 hours before her meet would start.
She and her friends wanted to play in the pool. I was thinking they would swim for ½ hour or so. When I suggested that it might not be a good idea to swim for a long time to the other moms, they said that their dd’s were going to continue to swim but if I wasn’t comfortable with it, I should have my dd get out of the water. I didn’t want to act like a CGD so I didn't pull her out. My dd and her friends were in the pool on and off until 9:30 pm. (Not the whole time, but at least a couple of hours.)
She still got about 10 hours of sleep the night before the meet, which is plenty for her, and she said that she wasn’t tired the next day. The coaches had made it clear to our dds' that they should not swim on meet day, so it never came up.
My dd was off for the entire meet. She was sloppy and didn’t have her usual bounce. Does it seem likely that swimming could have contributed to her poor performance?
She has a meet in Florida and I want to make sure that this really could have been the issue before I become the CGD dad that spoils the fun.
She’s improved at her meets as the season has progressed. That is, until her most recent meet.
This was the first time that we stayed at a hotel the night before the meet. I wanted her to be able to spend some time with her friends outside the gym. We got to the hotel mid-day, over 24 hours before her meet would start.
She and her friends wanted to play in the pool. I was thinking they would swim for ½ hour or so. When I suggested that it might not be a good idea to swim for a long time to the other moms, they said that their dd’s were going to continue to swim but if I wasn’t comfortable with it, I should have my dd get out of the water. I didn’t want to act like a CGD so I didn't pull her out. My dd and her friends were in the pool on and off until 9:30 pm. (Not the whole time, but at least a couple of hours.)
She still got about 10 hours of sleep the night before the meet, which is plenty for her, and she said that she wasn’t tired the next day. The coaches had made it clear to our dds' that they should not swim on meet day, so it never came up.
My dd was off for the entire meet. She was sloppy and didn’t have her usual bounce. Does it seem likely that swimming could have contributed to her poor performance?
She has a meet in Florida and I want to make sure that this really could have been the issue before I become the CGD dad that spoils the fun.