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Ditto Bogwogpit!Alex that is a great post and really says it all.
It's not just bad coaching it is child abuse!
See what happens next time- see if they have taken your comments on board.If not i would put a compaint in writing.I am in a different country so I'm not sure whether clubs where you are need to have a Welfare Officer? If not write to the owner.
It is absolutely Not on and your child needs to see that bullying is not tolerated.this is why many women don't have the confidence to walk away from abusive relationships.
Bog, this type of behavior by an adult can be reported to social services or whatever agency investigates child abuse and it doesn't have to be done by the parent of the child. I do know about an instance in our area of social services being contacted because a parent slapped her child after a poor practice and the coach was yelling profanities(not gymnastics)----it wasn't the 1st time this had happened and a parent did report it and it was investigated.
My daughter has been doing backwalkovers while training for level 6 for a year or more. She has suddenly developed a fear. A big fear. The way her coaches are dealing with it is leaving her on the beam for hours, last night three hours, the whole practice. They would yell at her, humiliate her and when they were not doing that ignoring her. I am asking any coaches out there how they would handle this. Because their method is not working, if anything it has gotten worse. My daughter was the state AA champion last year at level 5. She has a great work ethic but her coaches have almost pushed her out of the gym. It is a shame really.
There is a fine line between what the OP posted (abuse) and trying to get a child to unblock. At dd's cheer gym if a child has shown they can do a pass 100 times and then all of a sudden stop...they will get a earful from a coach. One of dd's friend's had progressed to a ROBHS tuck...out of nowhere she stopped throwing everything, she would only do a roundoff. Every time she did her pass and rebounded out of the RO the coach would say "Thank you for wasting my time..." and would send her back to the line to go again. Another athlete did toe touches until she would throw her BHS. But like I said these were all kids that had thrown these skills a 100 times before. I have never witnessed anything to the extreme the OP posted...