Honestly I just don't know what to do anymore.
Went through a fairly mediocre meet last Saturday (and I am being generous here) scoring an average of 7.5 on almost every event.
While thats not horrible, it's also something that must be improved on. I'm not sure if they're unmotivated or what it is...
So yesterday we had our last practice before our competition this weekend. All I told them is I'm looking for improved form and presentation. Not too much to ask. We go to bars and they are assigned to warm up two of each part and then do 5 routines. Instead of that they decide to be doing handstands in line and bouncing themselves on the cast trainer. Then vault is pretty much the same attitude, running drills falling down on the floor giggling and while waiting in line jumping into the pit and doing handsands on mats. Every 5 minutes I'm trying to get them to settle down and focus.
Now it gets worse...
We rotate to beam. Since we're not scheduled for beam I have to talk to the Optional coach to see which beams I can use so I ask them to line up. What ensues is SEVEN MINUTES of a group of girls playing patty cake, talking, and eventually wandering onto the middle of the floor doing all sorts of flips and cartwheels, pretty much in the way of other classes. SEVEN MINUTES of me staring at them in disbelief and the head coach also watching, them looking at us not seeming to care.
You might be saying get control of your group, but pretty much every day is like this. They need babysitting and I cant spend all my time disciplining while I need to be spotting and coaching and everything else. When I do discipline them its an all day event and it never transfers over to the next practice day. It's like a vicious cycle that never ends.
So now since they wasted 7 minutes of my time, I put them in a time out for 7 minutes. Then to top it off a parent comes storming to the door, mad at ME, for making her child sit in a time out.
I've had it. I don't know what to do for these kids anymore. Some of them try sometimes, but have issues that are holding them back (like flexibility, strength and form), then theres the ones who won't try or fix anything you ask them to (i have had a girl actually tell me shes not going to fix it), then theres the ones with some natural ability, but nover feel like putting the full effort in.
I'm not giving up on them but I have seriously had enough and not sure what to do anymore. And to top it off, some of the parents are not being very supportive of the behavioral issues. They are thinking I'm just making it all up! I have never had a group like this before and at this rate they will all be repeating the level which doesn't bode well for my sanity. :/
HELP! Anything...suggestions. Comforting words...anything!
Went through a fairly mediocre meet last Saturday (and I am being generous here) scoring an average of 7.5 on almost every event.
While thats not horrible, it's also something that must be improved on. I'm not sure if they're unmotivated or what it is...
So yesterday we had our last practice before our competition this weekend. All I told them is I'm looking for improved form and presentation. Not too much to ask. We go to bars and they are assigned to warm up two of each part and then do 5 routines. Instead of that they decide to be doing handstands in line and bouncing themselves on the cast trainer. Then vault is pretty much the same attitude, running drills falling down on the floor giggling and while waiting in line jumping into the pit and doing handsands on mats. Every 5 minutes I'm trying to get them to settle down and focus.
Now it gets worse...
We rotate to beam. Since we're not scheduled for beam I have to talk to the Optional coach to see which beams I can use so I ask them to line up. What ensues is SEVEN MINUTES of a group of girls playing patty cake, talking, and eventually wandering onto the middle of the floor doing all sorts of flips and cartwheels, pretty much in the way of other classes. SEVEN MINUTES of me staring at them in disbelief and the head coach also watching, them looking at us not seeming to care.
You might be saying get control of your group, but pretty much every day is like this. They need babysitting and I cant spend all my time disciplining while I need to be spotting and coaching and everything else. When I do discipline them its an all day event and it never transfers over to the next practice day. It's like a vicious cycle that never ends.
So now since they wasted 7 minutes of my time, I put them in a time out for 7 minutes. Then to top it off a parent comes storming to the door, mad at ME, for making her child sit in a time out.
I've had it. I don't know what to do for these kids anymore. Some of them try sometimes, but have issues that are holding them back (like flexibility, strength and form), then theres the ones who won't try or fix anything you ask them to (i have had a girl actually tell me shes not going to fix it), then theres the ones with some natural ability, but nover feel like putting the full effort in.
I'm not giving up on them but I have seriously had enough and not sure what to do anymore. And to top it off, some of the parents are not being very supportive of the behavioral issues. They are thinking I'm just making it all up! I have never had a group like this before and at this rate they will all be repeating the level which doesn't bode well for my sanity. :/
HELP! Anything...suggestions. Comforting words...anything!