I could sure use your input on a situation that has been developing at Flippers new gym. The Flip trains with the top group of gymnasts. They have been wonderful to her and welcomed her from the beginning. Here's the problem. A couple of the big girls at the gym are having a Christmas party. They invited all the big girls and Flipper - none of the other little girls. I asked her why the other girls weren't invited. "They don't like any of the other girls." Ugh. These are nice girls and have been great role models for Flipper, but I am uncomfortable with her being the only kid at a high school party - and I am uncomfortable with them singling her out as the only one they "like". What would you do? How do you explain why this is wrong to a 10-year-old?