GymDad9.9
Proud Parent
My daughter has been a competitive gymnast for one year and before each competition my daughter and my wife butt heads over how my daughter's bun is put on. Our gym has a specific bun type; however, my daughter's hair is rather long and rather thick so on that basis alone it is difficult. The coach made a short instructional video for parents to refer to in how to best make the bun. My daughter and my wife argue as to whether the bun is properly constructed, the arguments can get heated. Sometimes my wife refers to the video; sometimes not. The episodes are stressful for my wife, my daughter and myself and it's its one less stress that any of us need on the day of competition or any day for that matter. There are an assortment of underlying issues at play....mother/daughter dynamics, meticulous child preparing for competition, concerned father caught in the middle of a situation where I wished my daughter was less confrontational and emotional about this and my wife would be able to construct a better bun with greater consistency. My daughter wants her mother to make her bun, my wife wants to make my daughter's bun, but it's sheer hell getting the bun done.