A year ago we were on our way out of an abusive WAG program for kid #1 and had left our TnT program for kid #2 and #3 b/c of losing the coach (the program ended up folding).
All 4 kids are now at amazing gyms and all is well on that front. (And I am super appreciative to our awesome coaches and programs)
But Kid #2 is being quietly emotionally mistreated by his baseball coach. He has been with the same team since he was newly 5 (so 6 years in August) THere's a ton of "daddy ball" so to speak (there are 5+ dad's who call themselves coaches, so those kids never sit out, the others have to sit 2-3 innings a game b/c we carry 12 on roster "to have coaching for tourneys". And that is not fair, I get sitting for bad attitudes, poor work ethic, poor focus/concentration stuff, but these kids are 10 yo. Instead, coaches ignore good plays (refusing high fives, turning their backs when the kids come in after a great play or inning) Punishing poor at bats with decreased field time.... The Head coach is very immature and he throws tantrums like his kid (I have never seem so many tears and temper tantrums on a field in my life), but he is tearing my kid apart by his actions and lack there of. He like's flashy and doesn't respect consistency, base hits and RBIs are important albeit not as "fun" as home runs scattered amongst strike outs. He can't see hard work and good leadership as virtues and thinks that his kid is going to the majors. He is scared of confrontation and hence no other coaches kids or pushy parents' kids sit the bench. I am frustrated and disappointed
All 4 kids are now at amazing gyms and all is well on that front. (And I am super appreciative to our awesome coaches and programs)
But Kid #2 is being quietly emotionally mistreated by his baseball coach. He has been with the same team since he was newly 5 (so 6 years in August) THere's a ton of "daddy ball" so to speak (there are 5+ dad's who call themselves coaches, so those kids never sit out, the others have to sit 2-3 innings a game b/c we carry 12 on roster "to have coaching for tourneys". And that is not fair, I get sitting for bad attitudes, poor work ethic, poor focus/concentration stuff, but these kids are 10 yo. Instead, coaches ignore good plays (refusing high fives, turning their backs when the kids come in after a great play or inning) Punishing poor at bats with decreased field time.... The Head coach is very immature and he throws tantrums like his kid (I have never seem so many tears and temper tantrums on a field in my life), but he is tearing my kid apart by his actions and lack there of. He like's flashy and doesn't respect consistency, base hits and RBIs are important albeit not as "fun" as home runs scattered amongst strike outs. He can't see hard work and good leadership as virtues and thinks that his kid is going to the majors. He is scared of confrontation and hence no other coaches kids or pushy parents' kids sit the bench. I am frustrated and disappointed
