bookworm
Proud Parent
This is very true and good advice. I'd tell your current coaches you are leaving before taking your daughter to try out. The current coaches almost always find out, especially at the upper levels.
Absolutely not! Keep your mouth shut until you are out of that gym...even though there are "no secrets", you never show your hand until it's a done deal...and not until you are out the door....don't risk them crapping all over your kid by saying you are going elsewhere or even looking...your current gym may show you the door if you tell them ahead of time....you send a polite email after you're done.