twinmomma
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- Jun 13, 2013
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More of what's been said. But I have an acrobatic gymnast. She was a level 9 top this year. Got all their skills, and then RIGHT before the first meet, she's balking on a skill that she's had for months. Competed it but was terrified. Spent the entire season back and forth at practice. Sometimes it was great, other times she needed a spot, and other times it was tears and tears. Then her partner dropped her. On a totally different skill. Literally from high handstand to her face on the floor. We didnt' even know if she'd compete again this season, much less at all after that. But she kept showing up and some practices were great, and others, not so much. I never said anything other than, how was practice? Did you have fun? Unless she wanted me, or asked for my help, and even then I directed her to higher level tops on her team for talking things out.
This year, she wants to be a base. She's little. But strong. And not the littlest. And I think it's a mistake for her to give up being a top but after the year she's had, who can blame her? Maybe she loves it, maybe she hates it. But it's HER SPORT. And her coaches care what the kids want and take it into consideration. I'm not the one out there on the floor in front of the judges throwing myself around. And neither are you. If she competes level 4 with a tumbling spot and takes the deduction so what???? What's the ultimate goal? Be honest with yourself because it's time we all realize 99% of our our kids aren't getting college scholarships or going to the Olympics. Pulling her only teaches her that when it's hard, you walk away. Teach her about perseverance, about fighting for what she wants, and about learning to trust her body. Life lessons come in many shapes and forms, and they more often come from losing seasons than winning ones.
This year, she wants to be a base. She's little. But strong. And not the littlest. And I think it's a mistake for her to give up being a top but after the year she's had, who can blame her? Maybe she loves it, maybe she hates it. But it's HER SPORT. And her coaches care what the kids want and take it into consideration. I'm not the one out there on the floor in front of the judges throwing myself around. And neither are you. If she competes level 4 with a tumbling spot and takes the deduction so what???? What's the ultimate goal? Be honest with yourself because it's time we all realize 99% of our our kids aren't getting college scholarships or going to the Olympics. Pulling her only teaches her that when it's hard, you walk away. Teach her about perseverance, about fighting for what she wants, and about learning to trust her body. Life lessons come in many shapes and forms, and they more often come from losing seasons than winning ones.