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I think you should let the coach deal with it. You are paying money for instruction so stay out of the way and let him/her instruct.
I agree that parents should leave the coaching to the coaches, well sorta almost kinda. There's a cross over between what coaches and parents do, and CoachTodd makes a good point........
You could ask her what corrections the coaches are giving her and have her think about it to see if she's understanding them. This might make her look at the skill a little differently.
.........in the sense that parents can help by teaching their children how to learn. His example of asking the dd if she can repeat the corrections while away from the gym is a step that helps them understand the important role corrections have, and that their job isn't to just repeatedly do the skill, but to try to model their attempts to the coach's version, and not theirs.
Also parents can help is teaching their child the importance of listening and asking questions when they don't understand. My favorite one is to have parents impress upon their child that change is the only way they can improve a skill, and that they have to make the change happen because nobody can do that but them.