- Jul 12, 2007
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OK, so here's an update. I emailed her coach last nite and brought up the frustration, the confidence (lack of), suggested the stacked mats (like they did for her last yr when she first started) and did not even mention moving the bars closer. So the reply was that DD "does very well on bars except the jump" HELLO that is a necessary skill for this and all successive levels????!!!?!?!? She said that DD is "very negative" about the jump and will make a deal with her to move the bars closer IF she shows more confidence. Of course she is negative if she knows she is going to fall everytime! I'll have a talk with her before practice today and may have to offer some kind of bribery!!!
Since she had already learned the initial drill with the mats stacked last year and she is making the jump at times during practice, I say let it go and trust the coach to do their job. The coach is right she just needs the confidence. just my 2 cents, but I would say don't focus on it at all when talking to your little one. She will get more and more confident over time. Feeling the pressure could keep her "negative thinking" in place.... Make sure you let her know, if you think you can, you can
As to the parent that suggested it was lazy coaching - I beg to differ. It has nothing to do with lazy coaching... but rather more effective, organized coaching.