So, we had a coach that asked for mileage and gas money, food money and per diem, parking, hotel even when local, and a rental car. There is a limit to what should be paid. NO one is being cheap, but trying to figure it out. If it is too much, you will price parents out of the sport. This year alone I have paid $1100 in coaching fees. and that is expected to go up as receipts come in. And I am all for giving coaches what they need. In fact, we moved my son to a different level for our last travel meet so his coach would not have to do Friday morning session, costing him more money. But I think there is a point that it is fair to the families and beneficial to the coaches.
Again, I have no problem paying per diems (and we just use the federal per diem rate for the city the meet is in), mileage, fair session pay, and any travel expenses (hotel, rental car, plane). But when you get into gas and mileage, per diem and food money (when they are eating for free), and other things like hotels and rental cars for local meets, it gets sticky.
I know we all want our coaches to be well compensated. But there is a balance.