SupportingHerDreams
Proud Parent
- Mar 3, 2016
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My 8yr old daughter had her last meet of her first competitive season on Friday. We only do 4 meets, she came in last in her age group at this meet and once again, she was the lowest AA score on her team (she was the lowest at the three other meets as well). She is handling this fine. She is also making great improvements. She scored her first 9 on the beam and then got a 9.125 on floor. Her coaches aren't concerned at all. They expect her to compete level 5 in the fall even though she was .575 away from scoring out. They say they see great potential and they say she is on track. It's just hard for my own competitive spirit to feel like she is always coming in so low.
We don't talk about scores or placement with her at all. There is no pressure on her as far as scores. We celebrate personal bests with her but that is really the only time scores are even brought up with her. We talk about how much fun she had at the meet and congratulate her on things like getting her handstand on the beam so much better. She may mention placement but we don't focus on it at all.
I know a lot of you have made comments about the scoring in these lower levels not really being indicative of how they are going to do in the sport. I just need to hear that again. I'm hoping that my girl will not be the lowest score forever!
We don't talk about scores or placement with her at all. There is no pressure on her as far as scores. We celebrate personal bests with her but that is really the only time scores are even brought up with her. We talk about how much fun she had at the meet and congratulate her on things like getting her handstand on the beam so much better. She may mention placement but we don't focus on it at all.
I know a lot of you have made comments about the scoring in these lower levels not really being indicative of how they are going to do in the sport. I just need to hear that again. I'm hoping that my girl will not be the lowest score forever!