We are about to go into our fourth meet season with this gym. Coaching/head coaches have changed several times. DD is not a super phenom by any means, but has consistently been a top scorer. Has never skipped a level and is not likely to ever skip a level. Not TOPS, not elite. Is not super young. Current HC has noticed her BUT - she does not get any privates OR special attention at all. We do NOT talk to other people about our gymnast, we do not push for extra attention, we do not brag, we almost never go to practice at all.
Parents are extremely aloof. We go to events, go to fundraisers, participate, move tables, bake cookies, send encouraging emails and texts, congratulate parents/gymnasts, cheer for every single gymnast at the gym. As compulsories, we have attended optional meets, as optionals, we have attended compulsory meets. I really don't feel like there's much more we can do and I'm feeling incredibly fed up and upset.
I find it almost beyond belief that people could be jealous, but we're not seeing any other explanation whatsoever. Do grownups really act like this?
Parents are extremely aloof. We go to events, go to fundraisers, participate, move tables, bake cookies, send encouraging emails and texts, congratulate parents/gymnasts, cheer for every single gymnast at the gym. As compulsories, we have attended optional meets, as optionals, we have attended compulsory meets. I really don't feel like there's much more we can do and I'm feeling incredibly fed up and upset.
I find it almost beyond belief that people could be jealous, but we're not seeing any other explanation whatsoever. Do grownups really act like this?