Since we're talking about the parent thread and I'm one that gave some well intentioned advice/opionions - I'm taking a crack here. To be fair, here is my original comment on that thread I AGREE that one should never make life altering decisions based solely on "Internet Experts", but where is the harm in considering that they actually have a valid point? I've come to appreciate this many varied opinions on this board, even if I don't always agree with them. After all, why else post on here if one neither wants NOR appreciates any opinions. What's the purpose of this board if not to share? Never did anyone suggest that you should drop everything and only listen to one poster or another. I think the purpose was to give you varying opinions - face it not all coaches have the best interest of a child in mind and we just wanted you to be aware and question.
What we're really talking about is that she is expected to be competing level 7 by next winter. You've stated before that your gym opts out of 6 (I'll get to that in a minute) and so we're talking about being concerned that a girl who has no kip competing level 5 jumps to competing level 7 by next winter. That's the big
. I know that you have said that she HAS most of 6/7 skills on the other events, but I think many question what is considered "HAS THEM". The scores that were posted don't indicate a solid mastery of the level 5 skills on the other events - so what is HAS them? The other events can't be discounted when it comes to jumping up to 7 next winter either. She did very well for a brand new level 5, I wouldn't call it mastered and is not only training but HAS level 6/7 skills.
Weren't there only 5 girls in her age group? That is great, but "bored to tears in level 4"?
Is it possible that you've mistaken what the coach was saying about J competing level 7 by next winter and that it would be a colossal waste of time to keep training 5? I AGREE that there is no need to work the level 5 routines for the next 12 months, but it is NEVER a waste of time to work skills that are not mastered yet. In the post from the other thread, you had stated (which is the comment that prompted my reply in that thread)
Then a mom from your own gym commented
Again, to be fair I'll include my response to that in that thread. Is it possible that this whole "stop training 5" issue has been misunderstood?
Seeing as I am only an "internet expert" I'm sure you've thrown out most of what I said, but if you stuck with it - I think most of us were just confused.
J is a very talented little girl! No one is denying that she has loads of potential. I think most of us were just trying to caution you with stories that we've witnessed over the years that we've been in this sport. I don't post on here often, but as you have said "this struck a chord".
I sincerely wish J luck and wherever/whatever level she is training/competing in the future.