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This was one of the first thoughts that came to my mind when reading too. At 11 years old, this is a time in a child's life they begin wanting more of a social group and peer influence rather than mom and dad. Other then gymnastics, when else does she get social time with peers? If she were in school with peers all day, perhaps her first response for gymnastics would not be social (as she would be fulfilling this need somewhere else). Just my opinion from experience, in no way am I judging homeschooling.
We are doing more of a "hybrid" home-school. DD still goes to a local school twice a week for science labs, art class, speech class etc. Also, we are very active in our church on Sunday and she has many friends there as well. Tomorrow we are going on a field trip in the morning with two other kids (not from gymnastics but from her home-school) DD loves to talk too much and is doing better homeschooling than she was in regular school. Her test scores are up thanks to less distractions. I miss the time to myself more than she misses her friends and one of the reason she gave me for not wanting to quit gymnastics (besides her main reason for missing her friends at gym) was "Then I would have to go back to regular school." Hmmmm. Maybe I have made it too nice for her?