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Proud Parent
So we all go through life and learn by the time we get to adulthood that not everyone is going to like you. Sometimes for no apparent reason there is a person who just loathes your existence on the planet and you have to learn to deal with it. Problem being my daughter isn't an adult. She just 10 and can't seem to understand why one particular coach doesn't like her and I am at a loss as to what to say to her.
At first I thought my daughter was just being overly sensitive, but I have watched the interraction between them and it really seems like this coach would like nothing more than for my child to never come to the gym again. In fact last night my daughter told me, "I think Coach Blah Blah wants me to quit so she doesn't have to coach me next year."
I don't see talking to this coach as helping at all. Of course she would just deny it and then my child would worry about being punished for talking to me about it. Unless something unforseeable happens, she is going to have to deal with this coach all next season (and she happens to coach my child's worst event which only compounds the situation).
I just hate seeing my daughter so affected by this. If she has this coach first event of the day, the rest of the day goes terribly every time because she is so frustrated and feels like she can't do anything well. Any of you more seasoned gym moms have any words of advice that I can say to her to work her past this?
At first I thought my daughter was just being overly sensitive, but I have watched the interraction between them and it really seems like this coach would like nothing more than for my child to never come to the gym again. In fact last night my daughter told me, "I think Coach Blah Blah wants me to quit so she doesn't have to coach me next year."
I don't see talking to this coach as helping at all. Of course she would just deny it and then my child would worry about being punished for talking to me about it. Unless something unforseeable happens, she is going to have to deal with this coach all next season (and she happens to coach my child's worst event which only compounds the situation).
I just hate seeing my daughter so affected by this. If she has this coach first event of the day, the rest of the day goes terribly every time because she is so frustrated and feels like she can't do anything well. Any of you more seasoned gym moms have any words of advice that I can say to her to work her past this?