if a coach from another gym took your child by the arms and physically moved them over for no reason other than that they wanted their athlete to have more space on the runway? Coach did then speak to the child for a second and give a high ten. Full disclosure-not my child, but the whole situation rubbed me the wrong way and I think if it had been my child I might have complained to the meet director. Posting to see if I would have been overreacting.