- Jan 22, 2008
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Oh heck I think we all do it in some way. DH made a deal with the Devil as I call it just this weekend. DD wanted a puppy and he told her if she won AA state champ he would purchase her any pet she wanted....... Ok now I have to put restrictions because that would be DD asking for a REAL pony and not the puppy. But This is something that she could achieve and I am willing to reward her year's of hard work with something her little heart desires. Mind you if she asks for a snake, hamster, spider, bird we will have to look harder at the pony option. Yes Mommy does have the trump card and can over rule anything that will freak me out. Since I will have to help with it.
We also do little bribes for those smaller accomplishments that are giving her troubles. Mind you they are little rewards a new leo for a skill that has given trouble or such. Heck I remember a barbie was the reward for a skill once. DD is determined to acheive her personal goals but those little extras help make it happen sooner.
I have to say with DD when we make these deals we know to be prepared to anty up because she is one little one that wont ever let it drop.
Now my parents were INSANE with their bribes when I was a teenager. Car for winning Nationals, diamond earings for an event etc. Heck my Dad has already told DD if she ever makes it to the olympics that he will purchase her a car of her choosing. Mind you she is 6 now. As I have told him he may have made a deal with the devil if she puts her mind to it. He could be purchasing her a very expensive car some day. He still laughs about it and says it would all be worth it if she ever made him pay up. Now they are asking what her rewards are for certain scores and placement for a regular meet. I told them that is up to them. We have the State reward on the table anything further than that they can make with her. I can't afford to reward her beyond her own achievements and pay for the sport. They laughed and said they would have a reward for her lined out. They are totally insane I tell you. Heck they pay my kids for grades so what can I say.
We also do little bribes for those smaller accomplishments that are giving her troubles. Mind you they are little rewards a new leo for a skill that has given trouble or such. Heck I remember a barbie was the reward for a skill once. DD is determined to acheive her personal goals but those little extras help make it happen sooner.
I have to say with DD when we make these deals we know to be prepared to anty up because she is one little one that wont ever let it drop.
Now my parents were INSANE with their bribes when I was a teenager. Car for winning Nationals, diamond earings for an event etc. Heck my Dad has already told DD if she ever makes it to the olympics that he will purchase her a car of her choosing. Mind you she is 6 now. As I have told him he may have made a deal with the devil if she puts her mind to it. He could be purchasing her a very expensive car some day. He still laughs about it and says it would all be worth it if she ever made him pay up. Now they are asking what her rewards are for certain scores and placement for a regular meet. I told them that is up to them. We have the State reward on the table anything further than that they can make with her. I can't afford to reward her beyond her own achievements and pay for the sport. They laughed and said they would have a reward for her lined out. They are totally insane I tell you. Heck they pay my kids for grades so what can I say.