cadybearsmommy
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- Dec 31, 2010
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I noticed you are in region 8. I am too! Depending on your state, I bet I could guess the gym in which you are talking about!
Feel free to PM me! =)
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I noticed you are in region 8. I am too! Depending on your state, I bet I could guess the gym in which you are talking about!
Feel free to PM me! =)
L8/L9 is a lot different than L2/L3/L4 or Xcel Bronze / Silver / Gold.I have seen this play out both ways. As mentioned in this thread, a gymnast might not get required skills to move to the next level and then will repeat even with a 38 AA, but with that said, if a gymnast is good enough to get a 38 they are typically strong enough to get their skills and move to the next level. I have seen gyms sandbag all of the time. They want to have the top scoring gymnasts and team. Personally, it gets my goat when girls should be moved up and other girls don't have the opportunity to place. On the flipside, sometimes coaches also know that the 38 at L8 might only be a 35 at best as a new L9 especially with repeat L9s in the meet. Sometimes they would rather have the gymnast repeat the level rather than score lower and lose confidence. Our gym moves the girls if they have the skills for the next level unless they really performed marginally (34s) by end of season.
It is easy to say all of that, and to want your child to believe all of that, but for anyone it is difficult to go from the top to the bottom. I have seen it in my ds over the past year. That is human nature. And you question yourself "i used to be so good, why am I not so good now" which turns into just "I am not good". I get that scores and placements should not matter, but remember in some cases we are dealing with 7/8 year olds, or, teenagers. Sheesh, teenagers have the most tenuous hold on self esteem of any age group!
So, if a coach/parent/gymnast decides to compete a level again to gain confidence, keep confidence, etc, it is not up to me to judge. I do believe that most coaches have the best interests of their gymnasts in mind (not all, but most)
I completely understand this perspective. And firmly believe it is why some of the kids quit once they hit optionals. I have to admit, I am pretty thrilled my girl doesn't care about the placing, she cares about the tricks/skills. Because when she gets lucky and actually places in something, it is reallllllly fun!!Not at all cbifoja....just giving that side.
Just because we expect kids to understand this, doesn't mean it doesn't affect them. ANd like I said, imo, it is the decision of the coach/gymnast/parents. repeat, don't. It doesn't affect us. It is up to them, and what they want to do with their path.
I think it is important to realize that the psyche of each child is so different, and waht is done for one, to help them succeed may not be the same as another. (I am not saying that there are not teams out there that sandbag, but really, you shoudl know their reasoning.) So, holding a kid back at a level may hurt one kid, help another. The end game is the same, the path can be straight, windy, or even double back a couple of times.
We can tell kiddos all of that...about scores, and placements. And eventually it will click for some. But there are kids out there that will struggle with this a lot. I have seen many kiddos quit because compulsary was easy for them, high placements, they were TOP DOG. Then comes optionals, and suddenly they are middle of the pack. That is really hard for any person to deal with and we have to recognize that.