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I completely understand this perspective. And firmly believe it is why some of the kids quit once they hit optionals. I have to admit, I am pretty thrilled my girl doesn't care about the placing, she cares about the tricks/skills. Because when she gets lucky and actually places in something, it is reallllllly fun!!
Fortunately, DS is like this too. But he has had many friends from many gyms leave the sport. It is good to be intrinsically motivated, but man, that little "pat on the back" or public recognition once in a while doesn't hurt