Dunno - Thanks for your response. I think like most parents, I just want what is best for my daughter, not just in gymnastics, but in life. I think gymnastics training can provide great life skills, even if the child is not a superstar. I believe that my daughter has what it takes to be great, but of course my viewpoint maybe somewhat biased. She is very flexible, very strong and gets skills quicker than anyone on her team. Her form needs polishing, but she has inproved exponentially on this in the year she has been on team. Most of all, she has the drive and committment to do whatever it takes to excel in gymnastics. What gym wouldn't want that kind of athlete on their compulsory tract? We had a meeting with the head coach a few weeks back and was told by him that it hard to keep up with where all the girls are at because they have over 100 girls on team. We do have girls all the way up to level 10, but the bulk are in the lower levels or preteam. He said they would evaluate her in 2 weeks and decide whether to change her to the compulsory team.
I am not changing gyms because apart from this issue, I love her coaches and she loves them and it has been a very postive experience for my daughter. The other gyms are too far away and I can't make any more sacrifces for the rest of my family in terms of time. This gym is not perfect, but I'm pretty sure no gym is. I am just trying to figure out how to be an advocate for my daughter without being one of "those parents" who are always complaining and wanting special treatment for their child.
Thank you for taking the time to consider and respond to my issue. I deeply appreciate it!