My 11-year-old level 7 is struggling with some fears. Specifically her BHS on high beam (it's beautiful and consistant on low beam) and bars (bars in general, giants and lay-out fly-aways in particular). She has a great attitude about it, always comes out of practice happy, coach says she's a hard worker. I guess I just need some of those warm, comforting posts that I always leave when someone starts a "when will Suzie start kipping?" thread.
I don't need suggestions on how to help her with her back handspring or whatever, because I do trust her coaches, and would never feel qualified to make suggestions to her or (especially) her coach... "Well, this coach on Chalk Bucket told me you should try..." I try not to mention it to DD at all. Celebrate the successes and otherwise just be generally supportive. I have vowed not to use the words "squat on" with my daughter even once this season (the bain of her level 5 and level 6 existance, and then she missed it at the mock meet a couple of weeks ago... ugh!).
I do "know" she will get it (the logical part of my brain knows this). She always does. But is it all about overcoming fear from here on out? Is that what optionals is? Just overcoming one fear after another? Is it because she's older (my over-the-hill 11-year-old) or because she's approaching puberty and her body is changing? Will things get easier (less scary) again, or is this just the reality of gymnastics, from here on out? And if so, WHY IS THIS FUN????
I know Dunno's go-to reason is "it's vestibular" but if you can do a skill on the low bar but not the high bar, it can't be vestibular, can it? The giants could be, I guess. But she has a beautiful lay-out on floor, and a perfectly respectable tucked fly-away, so I wouldn't think that the lay-out fly-away would be vestibular either. Just scary.
Thanks in advance...
I don't need suggestions on how to help her with her back handspring or whatever, because I do trust her coaches, and would never feel qualified to make suggestions to her or (especially) her coach... "Well, this coach on Chalk Bucket told me you should try..." I try not to mention it to DD at all. Celebrate the successes and otherwise just be generally supportive. I have vowed not to use the words "squat on" with my daughter even once this season (the bain of her level 5 and level 6 existance, and then she missed it at the mock meet a couple of weeks ago... ugh!).
I do "know" she will get it (the logical part of my brain knows this). She always does. But is it all about overcoming fear from here on out? Is that what optionals is? Just overcoming one fear after another? Is it because she's older (my over-the-hill 11-year-old) or because she's approaching puberty and her body is changing? Will things get easier (less scary) again, or is this just the reality of gymnastics, from here on out? And if so, WHY IS THIS FUN????
I know Dunno's go-to reason is "it's vestibular" but if you can do a skill on the low bar but not the high bar, it can't be vestibular, can it? The giants could be, I guess. But she has a beautiful lay-out on floor, and a perfectly respectable tucked fly-away, so I wouldn't think that the lay-out fly-away would be vestibular either. Just scary.
Thanks in advance...