So I have a big problem. We have a nieces wedding coming up. RSVP'd for months ago. It's 4 hours away. Just found out today that HC scheduled choreographer for the same weekend. She says she absolutely cannot change it. I don't know what to do. What I can see is no new choreography this year. Send my DH and other children and don't go. Or possibly find another choreographer. Which I don't think HC will go for. She is usually pretty flexible. I haven't even gotten to DD trying out for Middle school volleyball yet. I am waiting to hear if she makes the team on Friday. I am not sure whether to dig in on this one or not. I am pretty stressed over it. I guess I am afraid that since DD just made L7 coach will be fed up and change her mind.